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Rejection Sensitivity in Gifted and Twice-Exceptional Children

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  1. ChrisMarshallNY · · focus · HN ↗
    Ugh. I'm not sure that I'm comfortable giving the sensitivity its own diagnoses. I feel as if it's a secondary reaction to a chronic condition.

    I'm "on the spectrum," which, of course, means that my K-12 days were a living hell. It was bad. I spent most of my early years, acting as a punching bag for any bully or proto-bully that was feeling the need to let off some steam.

    Needless to say, I tended to be a bit "sensitive," during that period.

    I also learned, early on, that I was absolutely terrible at determining motivation in others. I have learned to ask, explicitly, before assigning motive, so the sensitivity has extended far past my bully-magnet days.

    These days, I'm fairly old, and have developed highly effective compensation/coping mechanisms, but it took a long time to get here.

    All that, to say that, in my case, I feel as if the "sensitivity" was real, but as a secondary symptom of my "normal" autism lite.

    1. cindyllm · · focus · HN ↗

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