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Singapore govt dating app uses Gale-Shapley stable marriage algorithm

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  1. mlboss · · focus · HN ↗
    There is a very simple solution to the problem. Just add a tax to single people and childless couples or reverse give huge tax break to married and couple with kids.

    In past the motive for marriage was sex and companionship which was frowned in society if out of wedlock. Now it is not frowned upon. The old constraint is gone and we need to add new constraints if we want to solve the problem.

    1. croes · · focus · HN ↗
      That’s how you get loveless marriages and kids whose purpose is being a tax break.

      Good wages, enough free time, affordable housing, free child care, universal healthcare.

      That’s the better way.

      There plenty of people who want to marry and get kids but they don’t have enough time and money.

      1. TFNA · · focus · HN ↗
        > Good wages, enough free time, affordable housing, free child care, universal healthcare.

        Nordic countries did this. Birthrates have been declining regardless. Even Gulf Arab countries which are an even more enviable welfare state, and have considerable religious-cultural emphasis on childraising, too, have seen declining birthrates.

        1. SXX · · focus · HN ↗
          Birthrates decline is unrelated process which is just stronger than those incentives.

          Do you aware how expensive Nordic countries are to live in and have social life even counting all the free stuff?

          And gulf arab countries are basically even worse in this regard.

          1. fragmede · · focus · HN ↗
            It's simpler than that. People need to have hope for the future. With the climate going to shit, who wants to subject a child to that?
            1. TFNA · · focus · HN ↗
              You might want to get out more. Climate-change concerns are amplified online like many other kinds of activism, but if you travel countries with declining birthrates, you'll rarely hear people IRL speaking of them.
              1. nemo · · focus · HN ↗
                Not everyone is well informed about the realities of climate change, but many are and it's a concern I hear from normal people from the US, Europe, and Asia that I've met. Some bury their heads in the sand, and if you do you'll ignore others who haven't, but it's a very legitimate concern for people with a basic awareness of reality. Things have gotten far worse in my lifetime, probably older people are more concerned since we can see the changes more clearly, but not all young people are deluded or ignorant about the reality of climate change.
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