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Everybody’s home. No one’s coming over

835 points · 738 comments · barry-cotter

  1. EDEdDNEdDYFaN · · focus · HN ↗
    Feel like part of the issue is everyone’s self imposed neurosis about not intruding on others. My wife insists on not ever asking to come over to someone’s house - she only wants to be explicitly invited. We invite people over to our place when we can but this leads to us basically never visiting any of our friends because they aren’t the planning type.
    1. davsti4 · · focus · HN ↗
      You'll want to try and expand your circle of friends to include those that are the planning type and will bring variety to the location. Either that, or start changing the location.

      If you don't, people will get bored and eventually the group will disband.

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