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Everybody’s home. No one’s coming over

835 points · 738 comments · barry-cotter

  1. gonzalohm · · focus · HN ↗
    This may not be shared by other people, but my two cents.

    I personally don't like inviting people to my house (or going to other people's houses) because I already spend a good chunk of my day indoors (I work from home). Whenever possible, I prefer to meet outside.

    1. some_furry · · focus · HN ↗
      When I was growing up, a good deal of these sorts of parties involved backyards, barbecues, and swimming pools. Rarely did we spend time indoors.
      1. I-M-S · · focus · HN ↗
        This might explain the decline then, as with the price of housing going up less people can afford a place that has a backyard (let alone a pool!)
      2. ielillo · · focus · HN ↗
        I remember when i was young going out on vacations with school friends and their parents for several days. Also similar to weekends at country houses. The trend was that a couple of parents liked to host the get togethers and didn’t mind 10 adults and 20 children of different ages running around the place
      3. gonzalohm · · focus · HN ↗
        None of my friends have a backyard big enough to host a BBQ
        1. Gigachad · · focus · HN ↗
          Not sure the kind of size you are talking about but you might be overestimating how much space it takes. My current rental has a back yard about the size of a single car garage and I’ve been able to host a ~50 person bbq with a mix of people standing inside and out.
    2. presentation · · focus · HN ↗
      I think the point of the article is more about meeting with others at all, as opposed to it specifically being at home. So hang out with friends outside!
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