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13 Months Sober (2025)

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  1. gadders · · focus · HN ↗
    When did "sober" take over from "teetotal" for someone who will long-term abstain from alcohol?

    I'm sober right now but won't be tonight when I have a couple of glasses of wine in front of the TV.

    1. sophacles · · focus · HN ↗
      I'm sober, both in the immediate sense and in the sense that I haven't had a drink in 23 years. I know that drinking is not a good thing for me, for many reasons.

      If you want to go home and have a beer or whatever - have a good time. If you want to go to the bar later and have a drink - maybe I'll go with you and sip a fancy mocktail or something, we can take turns buying rounds. If you want to get wasted and party all night - have fun, I had a lot of fun nights that way (please don't drive though).

      I'm not opposed to anyone else's drinking. I just know I can't.

      Teetotal implies an opposition to all alcohol use. A teetotaler is against you drinking. I'm not opposed to that at all, I just choose for myself to be sober, for a myriad of personal reasons.

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