Not sure what you consider "no good" alternatives. jeanp413.open-remote-ssh[0] has worked flawlessly. It's the first or second search hit in the extension manager for "ssh". It's a fork of Microsoft's previous extension before the proprietarized it.
I very much dislike this extension because it uses a built-in ssh client that is far from feature complete and does a lot of reinventing the wheel. Microsoft's extension uses the system ssh binary, as does <a href="https://open-vsx.org/extension/aergic/zygos-vscodium" rel="nofollow">https://open-vsx.org/extension/aergic/zygos-vscodium which I much prefer. After discovering the latter, I uninstalled VSCode and have fully moved to VSCodium.
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0: <a href="https://open-vsx.org/extension/jeanp413/open-remote-ssh" rel="nofollow">https://open-vsx.org/extension/jeanp413/open-remote-ssh
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